I am confusing...
The boy I love does not have much money, and his parents are farmers. I am planning to marry him next year, but I suddenly notice that, we have no money to buy our own house, or even a bigger wedding ceremony.Should I continuing our relationship? Should I seek another boy, a richer boy?
Of course, NO!
We love each other, but I feel so depressed. I have the same situaion as you ,our relationgship has lasted for 7 years. We have had our
marriage certification at this October.But now I am a little regret, I can't see our future,we
are both not rich,and our work are both not good.Everyday when I am going home on the
road after work ,thinking about these things ,my heart is painful greatly.I don't know what I
can do to make ourdays better.I don't know wether I can have other choice.
My painful Heart . Who can help me . I think if you both work hard, life will get better and better.
My love is also very poor, but I am proud of him. I am a boy whose situation is worse than your boyfriend. But fortunately my girlfriend trusts our future, and so do I. Everything will go on well when both have the same goal and head for it together.
Best wishes. I would like to give you my best wishes.
think twice whether you really love the poor boy or not ? why do you love him?can you achieve a better future through hard work ? are you confident about youself and him?
In my opinion ,I do not agree with the suggestion to find a richer man because of shortage in money ,for this kind of marriage will not be happy at all .and one will regret forever . I would like to give you my best wishes.
think twice whether you really love the poor boy or not ? why do you love him?can you achieve a better future through hard work ? are you confident about youself and him?
In my opinion ,I do not agree with the suggestion to find a richer man because of shortage in money ,for this kind of marriage will not be happy at all .and one will regret forever . don't feel depressed
the house and the wedding ceremony not the necessary conditions of true love
hope you have happiness life many thanks for your warm words~
i feel much better thses days.
thank you all Hey girls, Frist I need to introduces myself , I am a boy which also without much money. And during these day I feel very upset also , I can find the job for one year after my graduate from my master degree by the of the finance crises. So my grilfriend and their parent start do not like me so much. One month ago , my gril told me she fall in love with another, but she feel confusing, because she know she still love me by the reason we have had the happy time for more than one year. So she tell me to give her some time ,let she figure out how to do.
Of course, I feel very upset, but i think the most important question is she do not tell me what she want , what she thing about me untill that guy come out. In my opinion , all the question should be work out by both sides ,this is not only your problem , you need to talk with him. Otherwise the thing will go on like my situation, I feel upset very well but that is now work . Things have began, very things is too late :') Do'nt grieve little girl. Believe yourself and believe your boyfriend. Money is not the important,but haven't money you can't do anything.So you should have a good future plan.To believe everything will be better .
best wishes!The bread will have of, the milk will also have of, everythings all there will be [quote]I think if you both work hard, life will get better and better.
My love is also very poor, but I am proud of him.
[size=2][color=#999999]Go2africa 发表于 2009-12-4 00:04[/color] [url=http://bbs.rrenglish.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=784451&ptid=108987][img]http://bbs.rrenglish.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
All the way home he'll be warm. [quote]The boy I love does not have much money, and his parents are farmers. I am planning to marry him next year, but I suddenly notice that, we have no money to buy our own house, or even a bigger wedding ...
[size=2][color=#999999]sowuna 发表于 2009-12-3 21:54[/color] [url=http://bbs.rrenglish.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=784434&ptid=108987][img]http://bbs.rrenglish.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
[color=black]as long as you got each other
[/color] earn more money,everything bolish. no money and no house ,but love still on the way! I think you love him very much!But I think that your choice is a good one!I hope you will have good days. Thank you all.I fell warm after seeing your words,and this words encourage me long time,thank you again,and i feel more confidence about our lives.
Everything will come better!
believe it！ [i=s] 本帖最后由 w85106 于 2010-3-12 14:06 编辑 [/i]
I do not know why you thought this,since in my opinion,we are very young,we can earn what we want by hard work.
My boyfriend and me are high school classmates,we have been together for almost 7years.Both of us are come from countryside,and the two families are poor. After gratuated from school,we both started our jobs in Hefei.At first,the salary is so poor,we rent a small house and work hard.Now four years past,we are getting better and better. Last year,we bought our own house by loans. Now each month we have to pay the bank for our house,however we feel happiness,as we will have our own home in this city all by ourselves.
So,why you feel upset? You can have all you want if you two work together.
Don't be depressed,girl.Cheer up! Heart-warming knowing true love dose exist. to seek a rich boy **** 作者被禁止或删除 内容自动屏蔽 **** If you love your boyfriends, there is no excuse to leave him. Of course, the Economic base is essential. My suggestion is going ahead and working more hard to create your happiness lives. [b] [url=http://bbs.rrenglish.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=784438&ptid=108987]2#[/url] [i]lqq_wn[/i] [/b]
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you are a good girl,come on . I think love has nothing to do with money.We are both young,we can work together to create a better future.Believe yourself. [b] [url=http://bbs.rrenglish.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=784434&ptid=108987]1#[/url] [i]sowuna[/i] [/b]
actually, it is not a difficult question. when i married with my husband, he also had no money, we both worked in shanghai as migrant workers. the salaries are just enough to lease a house. as of right now, i still think that period of time is pretty nice and worth to remember. you should believe, by both working hard, you can have a good life. after several yeas' accumulating, you can earn the money to pay the first payment of your house. we just buy a small old house after about 5years. although the house is little old, but in good location with shopping center and Carrefour around. after experiencing this hard but sweet period, you will think it is very meaningful. you should recongnize better life should be created by yourselves, not given by a rich man.
just imaging, if you find a wealthy man as your husband, can you make sure he will pay attention to you and never betray your loves. you should relize troubles can witness the true love. I don't known want to say. The society is very true. I hope everyone have a good future. I am only in a town.I have a low salary . sometimes i feel very upset. The people around with me who have high salary and have a good home. Only me in a poor house. I want to have a one can stay with me, my heart have a despend. 好厉害的英语。。。 I think I can understand your thoughts. Because there are many familar stories like yours around me. I don't think I have to give your another advices that are different from anyone esles'. But I only tell your one point don't give up the sincere emotion for lure. You will be depressed if so in the future. I don't have a boy friend .but i have a cousin who is poor,he have a gilrfriend and they will get married soon .they lived poorly but extremly happy .becouse of love and young,nothing can defeat them.but if you try to find a rich one ,you maybe lose something called true love ,just like the movie 《Dwelling Narrowness》. To my opinion, you can grasp some things you think these important, to give up some things you consider unimportant. Poor because we want to get everything, poor because we aren't feel satisfied.
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